Well, the news here is that 12 kidnapper's were arrested this weekend in our area of town. It's a huge relief for us. They also found one of the places where they put the people they kidnapped.
I had a great time at Jenny's this weekend. I woke up Sunday morning, grabbed a cup of coffee and my Bible and vegged out by the pool for a bit. What a rough life!!!
On Saturday we were driving in Jenny's car on our way to pick up her friend. Her friend lives on this crazy road that is very narrow with cars parked on both sides. We got to the house safely and managed to turn around but when we got back to the main road a big truck was stuck there so we had to turn around again!! Jenny was driving and everyone on the street and in the car were yelling instructions; turn right, turn left, go forward, go back! In her attempt to turn the car around Jenny hit one of the cars parked on the side. Everyone started shouting. I was sort of scared that someone would pull out a gun. Ysmaille jumped out of the car to talk to them. We had to keep moving because we were blocking traffic. In the end it all worked out. We gave them some money and they were happy, but for some reason I was really shook up by the event.
The visitors are hard at work and the playground is starting to take shape. It'll be so great when it's finished. They kids are really excited and so am I.
The next two days there won't be school which will be nice. I can sort of sleep in, although it's hard to sleep in when there are kids playing loudly right outside my door and someone is sweeping the driveway right outside my window. Such is life when you live with 15 other people:)
Senye, ala nou kontan se pa nou k'ap kenbe ou men se ou k'ap kenbe nou. Lord, How glad we are that we don't hold you, but that you hold us.
Monday, October 31, 2005
Saturday, October 29, 2005
Playground
The visitors have been working hard and the playground is coming along quite nicely. Today they went to check out Baptist Mission and Fort Jacque. I decided not to go b/c I'm going to Jenny's again. The visitors are great and I'm enjoying my time with them but it's still nice to get away for a bit. There's lots of time to talk with them, they're here for another week. They collected a lot of donations before they came and it's great to see them pass out the stuff to the kids and the guys.
So yesterday we had another scare. Two American kids were kidnapped right near our house. (On Delmas 31 for people familiar with Coram Deo) A mother was driving with her two children when the kidnappers got in the car and told her to get out. We dont' know much more. Please pray that they will be returned to their mother soon without any harm. I was quite shaken up because I walk in this area a lot. (of course I'm always with a Haitian but what can they do if there's a gun to my head?) It's so hard to decide what to do. I feel safe here but I tend to think I'm invincible and no one will hurt me.
Next week we have two holidays. Tuesday and Wendesday there is no school due to All Saints day and All Souls Day. One is a Christian holiday and one is a Voodoo holiday but both are honoured by the Haitian government. It'll be nice to have two days off to get some odd jobs done around here.
I have added some new pictures to my photo album so if you're interested you can check them out.
So yesterday we had another scare. Two American kids were kidnapped right near our house. (On Delmas 31 for people familiar with Coram Deo) A mother was driving with her two children when the kidnappers got in the car and told her to get out. We dont' know much more. Please pray that they will be returned to their mother soon without any harm. I was quite shaken up because I walk in this area a lot. (of course I'm always with a Haitian but what can they do if there's a gun to my head?) It's so hard to decide what to do. I feel safe here but I tend to think I'm invincible and no one will hurt me.
Next week we have two holidays. Tuesday and Wendesday there is no school due to All Saints day and All Souls Day. One is a Christian holiday and one is a Voodoo holiday but both are honoured by the Haitian government. It'll be nice to have two days off to get some odd jobs done around here.
I have added some new pictures to my photo album so if you're interested you can check them out.
Wednesday, October 26, 2005
Canadians Arrive
Well the Canadian visitors finally arrived after spending a night at the New York Airport. The airline didn't get them a hotel like promised. They said it was an interesting night to say the least. It's a bit crazy with so many people milling around. Whenever I've gone on mission trips I've never given any thought to how the missionaries we were visiting felt when we came and overtook their place of residence:) It'll be a fun week I'm sure but definately crazy.
I thought the guys would be thrilled with so many young beautiful women here but they're being really shy and not talking at all. I'm sure that will change by the end of the visit:)
It'll be nice to be able to talk English really fast and be understood!!
The project they are planning is building a playground for the school. I think it's a great idea and I look forward to. The kids will love it and it will be used a lot.
I thought the guys would be thrilled with so many young beautiful women here but they're being really shy and not talking at all. I'm sure that will change by the end of the visit:)
It'll be nice to be able to talk English really fast and be understood!!
The project they are planning is building a playground for the school. I think it's a great idea and I look forward to. The kids will love it and it will be used a lot.
Monday, October 24, 2005
Girl time, rain and visitors
Well, I finally got some "girl time" on Sat. night. I went to Jenny's place and two teachers from the English school came over and we just hung out and had some girl chats. I enjoyed it thoroughly. On Sunday church was cancelled due to the rain (sort of like a snow day).
Speaking of rain, "Wilma" thankfully did not visit Haiti but just sent a lot of rain our way. Where we are situated in Haiti a lot of rain really doesn't affect us too much but some places are very dangerous if we get a lot of rain. Mudslides are a real problem in certain areas.
So, today we were supposed to have 10 visitors come from Canada but their flight was cancelled due to the storms in the Carribbean. They will be coming tomorrow instead. They are staying for 2 weeks!!! It'll be a full house. Karen set up beds everywhere for them to sleep on and the kids are sleeping in the kitchen. Should be an interesting 2 weeks. I have to share my bathroom with 10 new people, I guess I'll be getting up really early to beat the rush:)
Okay, that's all for now.
Speaking of rain, "Wilma" thankfully did not visit Haiti but just sent a lot of rain our way. Where we are situated in Haiti a lot of rain really doesn't affect us too much but some places are very dangerous if we get a lot of rain. Mudslides are a real problem in certain areas.
So, today we were supposed to have 10 visitors come from Canada but their flight was cancelled due to the storms in the Carribbean. They will be coming tomorrow instead. They are staying for 2 weeks!!! It'll be a full house. Karen set up beds everywhere for them to sleep on and the kids are sleeping in the kitchen. Should be an interesting 2 weeks. I have to share my bathroom with 10 new people, I guess I'll be getting up really early to beat the rush:)
Okay, that's all for now.
Saturday, October 22, 2005
A day in the life...
Hello all, I have received several e-mails from people asking me what exactly I do here in this beautiful country called Haiti. I guess I never really explained my role here. So I'm going to take a minute to tell you about a day in the life of Kim.
Well, my official title is "Assistant Project Manager". Very fancy I know. The teachers here call me "directrice" which means principal. In reality I'm more like a cross between a secretary and a vice-principal:) There are 104 kids in the school and 7 teachers. I'm here to assist the teachers with supplies and sometimes with discipline. All the supplies are in the house and therefore the teachers need to ask me for whatever supplies they need; ie. pencils, paper, chalk, scissors etc. Also, the teachers don't have access to computers so whenever something needs to be typed for the students I type it up and make photocopies for them. This past week I was very busy typing all the exams for the first semester. I assist alot with the kindergarten class because the teacher is unable to walk and her class if full of energy. Other than that, I stay busy with administrative work, like typing reports, problem solving and organizing files for each student. Sometimes when teachers are having a difficult time with a student I will take them off their hands for a little while to give them a break. So that's basically what I do. In the evenings I'm in charge of showering the kids from the house. Sometimes I read with them or help them with their homework. After that I'm free to read a book, hang out with the guys in the house, watch T.V. or just go to bed early. Every day goes by so fast.
As for an update on my life... things are back to normal after my parents left. I'm back to rice and beans and no swimming in the afternoon:) I thought I'd be really down after my parents left but it was sort of nice to get back into my old routine and talk with the people I hadn't spent much time with for a whole week.
Today I'm going to Jenny's again for a swim and a quiet night. It's always nice to get away from the constant activity that happens at Coram Deo.
**Just a quick personal note, Nicole I've tried e-mailing you but it just gets sent back to me. I will try e-mailing you from Cadeau's account.**
Well, my official title is "Assistant Project Manager". Very fancy I know. The teachers here call me "directrice" which means principal. In reality I'm more like a cross between a secretary and a vice-principal:) There are 104 kids in the school and 7 teachers. I'm here to assist the teachers with supplies and sometimes with discipline. All the supplies are in the house and therefore the teachers need to ask me for whatever supplies they need; ie. pencils, paper, chalk, scissors etc. Also, the teachers don't have access to computers so whenever something needs to be typed for the students I type it up and make photocopies for them. This past week I was very busy typing all the exams for the first semester. I assist alot with the kindergarten class because the teacher is unable to walk and her class if full of energy. Other than that, I stay busy with administrative work, like typing reports, problem solving and organizing files for each student. Sometimes when teachers are having a difficult time with a student I will take them off their hands for a little while to give them a break. So that's basically what I do. In the evenings I'm in charge of showering the kids from the house. Sometimes I read with them or help them with their homework. After that I'm free to read a book, hang out with the guys in the house, watch T.V. or just go to bed early. Every day goes by so fast.
As for an update on my life... things are back to normal after my parents left. I'm back to rice and beans and no swimming in the afternoon:) I thought I'd be really down after my parents left but it was sort of nice to get back into my old routine and talk with the people I hadn't spent much time with for a whole week.
Today I'm going to Jenny's again for a swim and a quiet night. It's always nice to get away from the constant activity that happens at Coram Deo.
**Just a quick personal note, Nicole I've tried e-mailing you but it just gets sent back to me. I will try e-mailing you from Cadeau's account.**
Tuesday, October 18, 2005
Rain, rain go away...
We have had ALOT of rain lately which is unusual for Haiti. Clothes are not drying and we're all feeling a bit soggy. We're trying to stay positive and be thankful that we aren't experiencing hurricanes or tornadoes right now. Without the sun we also don't have any electricity at night because the invertor doesn't charge during the day. So last night felt a bit like camping, we sat around the oil lamp for a bit then went to bed early.
Yesterday (Monday) was a holiday in Haiti so I was able to spend the day with my parents. I worked in the morning because I had to finish a few things before my parents leave because I need to send it with them. In the afternoon we were hoping to go for a walk but due to the rain we went for a drive instead. We visited a few more of Ysmaille's family and showed my parents the "ritzy" part of town.
Today it's back to work and the school is currently in full swing. My parents leave today. We had a great visit together with lots of chances to talk and just hang out together. I was able to eat some North American food and just get away from Coram Deo for a bit. Of course it was great to see them and have them see the people I talk about and the places I go. Now when I talk to them they will be able to picture what I am talking about.
Yesterday (Monday) was a holiday in Haiti so I was able to spend the day with my parents. I worked in the morning because I had to finish a few things before my parents leave because I need to send it with them. In the afternoon we were hoping to go for a walk but due to the rain we went for a drive instead. We visited a few more of Ysmaille's family and showed my parents the "ritzy" part of town.
Today it's back to work and the school is currently in full swing. My parents leave today. We had a great visit together with lots of chances to talk and just hang out together. I was able to eat some North American food and just get away from Coram Deo for a bit. Of course it was great to see them and have them see the people I talk about and the places I go. Now when I talk to them they will be able to picture what I am talking about.
Saturday, October 15, 2005
Staying Safe
| On Friday afternoon an Amerian was kidnapped very close to our house. The kidnappers asked for money and he was released early the next morning. No more details are known at this time. The FBI has come to Haiti to assist with the situation. We are being very careful. Karen is not following her usual routine and when she goes out she takes a different route than she normally does. My parents rented a car for the weekend and it has air conditioning so we roll up all the windows and lock the doors for added security. I'm staying at the hotel with my parents for the weekend and we stop by Coram Deo every day to see how everyone is doing. On Friday afternoon my parents and I went downtown to check out the Presidential House and Museum which was interesting. Today we went to the Baptist Mission which is a well known mission in Haiti, North of the city. After this we went to visit Ysmaille's sister who lives in the mountains. (I have already visited here with Ysmaille) We had a nice relaxing time with his family. His sister cooked us a delicious meal and my parents had the chance to see a typical Haitian home and eat some typical Haitian food. The roads up the mountains are very rough and my dad and I spent some time walking ahead of the car to avoid being tossed about inside the car. On the way home my mom, dad and I walked most of the way down while Ysmaille followed with the car. Overall it was a nice relaxing day. Tonight we're just taking it easy and going to bed early so we can go to church in the morning. We're feeling safe and being cautious. Please continue to pray for our safety as well as the safety of all foreigners in Haiti. As always our Lord protects us and sends His angels to watch over us. |
Friday, October 14, 2005
Excitement at Coram Deo
It has been great to have my parents here. Due to a lack of a vehicle we haven't done too much yet. They come to Coram Deo in the morning and of course I put them right to work:) In the afternoon we've been relaxing at the hotel, going for a swim and eating some good food. The hotel isn't amazing but it's just nice to get away from all the noise and activity that is a constant at Coram Deo. I never realized how loud it always is until I was trying to have a conversation with my mom in my room after school, if I didn't raise my voice she couldn't hear what I was saying. It's amazing what you get used to in a short time. This weekend we hope to rent a car to go to the mountain and a few touristy spots along the way. Today Ysmaille is taking them to a museum in the morning and this afternoon we hope to go downtown and check out the presidential house and museum. Sunday we will go to Ysmaille's church so they can see a Haitian church. The rest of their visit is still to be determined. It's too bad that we can't show them more of the beautiful country that is Haiti but safety is always the most important.
Speaking of safety, we had quite the scare this week. Every morning Karen drives three of the Coram Deo kids to other schools and picks up one of the teachers who is unable to walk. On Thurs. morning Karen left at her usual time but didn't return on time. Twenty minutes after her usual return time I was getting nervous. Then I heard from one of the teachers that Karen was hiding at the school where Manu and Jacob go because there was an attempted kidnapping. I freaked out inwardly but remained calm outwardly. No one knew anymore than that Karen was hiding, it was quite a nerve wracking time. About 15 mintues later Karen returned and explained the story to us. She forgot to stop at Manise's school and drove right by, she stopped further down the road to drop off Manise. She heard someone yell "hey", but she ignored it and kept driving. When she arrived at Manu and Jacob's school she stopped outside and as Manu was getting out a guy jumped into the passenger seat and yelled "GO!" and began to reach into his pocket for a gun. Karen quickly pulled the key from the ignition and at the same time pushed open the driver's door. Another man with a gun was standing at the passenger door trying to push Karen back inside. Karen managed to push the door with all her might and push him out of the way. She ran inside the school with Manu and Jacob right behind her. They waited inside the school until they saw the men leave. Three of the male teachers from the school came back to Coram Deo with Karen to keep her safe. Since this incident we've discovered that these men are not from the area but have been hanging around for a few days. When they attempted the kidnapping, several people from the neighbourhood followed them and found out where they live. They live in one of the worst slums. Karen has already notified the Canadian Embassy in Haiti and they notified Ottawa. The Director of the school where it happened is American and she has notified the American Embassy. The Haitian police are aware and have already stopped by Coram Deo to speak with Karen. When Karen first arrived home she was very calm but as the day wore on and she had time to think about it she appeared more shook up. Needless to say we are being very careful. I'm surprised at how calmly my mom took the whole experience. I thought she'd want to leave immediately. Of course we were cautious before, and we'll be even more cautious now. This incident hit a little too close to home.
Please keep us in your prayers. Pray for our safety but also for the country as a whole. There's a lot of fear and sadness in Haiti that only our Lord Jesus can heal.
Speaking of safety, we had quite the scare this week. Every morning Karen drives three of the Coram Deo kids to other schools and picks up one of the teachers who is unable to walk. On Thurs. morning Karen left at her usual time but didn't return on time. Twenty minutes after her usual return time I was getting nervous. Then I heard from one of the teachers that Karen was hiding at the school where Manu and Jacob go because there was an attempted kidnapping. I freaked out inwardly but remained calm outwardly. No one knew anymore than that Karen was hiding, it was quite a nerve wracking time. About 15 mintues later Karen returned and explained the story to us. She forgot to stop at Manise's school and drove right by, she stopped further down the road to drop off Manise. She heard someone yell "hey", but she ignored it and kept driving. When she arrived at Manu and Jacob's school she stopped outside and as Manu was getting out a guy jumped into the passenger seat and yelled "GO!" and began to reach into his pocket for a gun. Karen quickly pulled the key from the ignition and at the same time pushed open the driver's door. Another man with a gun was standing at the passenger door trying to push Karen back inside. Karen managed to push the door with all her might and push him out of the way. She ran inside the school with Manu and Jacob right behind her. They waited inside the school until they saw the men leave. Three of the male teachers from the school came back to Coram Deo with Karen to keep her safe. Since this incident we've discovered that these men are not from the area but have been hanging around for a few days. When they attempted the kidnapping, several people from the neighbourhood followed them and found out where they live. They live in one of the worst slums. Karen has already notified the Canadian Embassy in Haiti and they notified Ottawa. The Director of the school where it happened is American and she has notified the American Embassy. The Haitian police are aware and have already stopped by Coram Deo to speak with Karen. When Karen first arrived home she was very calm but as the day wore on and she had time to think about it she appeared more shook up. Needless to say we are being very careful. I'm surprised at how calmly my mom took the whole experience. I thought she'd want to leave immediately. Of course we were cautious before, and we'll be even more cautious now. This incident hit a little too close to home.
Please keep us in your prayers. Pray for our safety but also for the country as a whole. There's a lot of fear and sadness in Haiti that only our Lord Jesus can heal.
Saturday, October 08, 2005
Fun Day
Today was a fun day! Karen promised the kids that if they get 100% in school she will take them to "Pizza Pam"(a local restaurant) and buy them a gift. Both Manu and Jacob got 100% this week so we took them out. We ate hamburgers and fries and went shopping for a while. Then we went for icecream. When you're away from home it's amazing how the little things like icecream and french fries become comforting and exciting at the same time:)
Going shopping is a very frustrating experience for me. I don't know where to goto buy things and I always have to wait around for people to go with me. This week I decided I wanted curtains for my room because kids I don't even know are always staring inside at me and it makes me uncomfortable. It took two trips to the market and went to three different stores and I still don't have all the things I need. Also, everytime I go I have to wait around for Ysmaille and then we need to make stops along the way. I guess I'll have to work on being patient and realizing that it's not the end of the world if it takes 2 weeks to hang my curtains. There's a different pace of life here and I need to get used to it.
Tomorrow I plan on going to the mountains for a hike. I'm looking forward to it. It's always nice to get away even if it's only for one day.
These week we didn't have electricity for 3 days which was frustrating and unusual around here. Usually we get electricity from about 7:00am until between 2-4:00p.m. It was frustrating to not be able to work on the computer or e-mail anyone but we survived.
Other than that, not too much is happening around here. I'm starting to have some good conversations with Haitians as my Creole is advancing and I'm learning a lot more about the culture and the "Haitian" way of thinking. I'm finding it very interesting.
I would just like to take a minute to brag. I finished my Creole course on Friday and I had to write an exam. I asked my instructor what would happen if I fail:) He said I'd have to pay an additional fee:) So anyway, he gave me the exam he usually gives his students if they have a 1 month course (mine was only 2 weeks) and I got 80%!! I was quite proud of myself. The trick is, now I have to keep studying on my own. My instructor explained everything to me but we moved at a very rapid pace and now I have to go back and review and memorize everything. It's hard to motivate myself but at the same time I get immediate gratification because I can talk with people more and more everyday.
Going shopping is a very frustrating experience for me. I don't know where to goto buy things and I always have to wait around for people to go with me. This week I decided I wanted curtains for my room because kids I don't even know are always staring inside at me and it makes me uncomfortable. It took two trips to the market and went to three different stores and I still don't have all the things I need. Also, everytime I go I have to wait around for Ysmaille and then we need to make stops along the way. I guess I'll have to work on being patient and realizing that it's not the end of the world if it takes 2 weeks to hang my curtains. There's a different pace of life here and I need to get used to it.
Tomorrow I plan on going to the mountains for a hike. I'm looking forward to it. It's always nice to get away even if it's only for one day.
These week we didn't have electricity for 3 days which was frustrating and unusual around here. Usually we get electricity from about 7:00am until between 2-4:00p.m. It was frustrating to not be able to work on the computer or e-mail anyone but we survived.
Other than that, not too much is happening around here. I'm starting to have some good conversations with Haitians as my Creole is advancing and I'm learning a lot more about the culture and the "Haitian" way of thinking. I'm finding it very interesting.
I would just like to take a minute to brag. I finished my Creole course on Friday and I had to write an exam. I asked my instructor what would happen if I fail:) He said I'd have to pay an additional fee:) So anyway, he gave me the exam he usually gives his students if they have a 1 month course (mine was only 2 weeks) and I got 80%!! I was quite proud of myself. The trick is, now I have to keep studying on my own. My instructor explained everything to me but we moved at a very rapid pace and now I have to go back and review and memorize everything. It's hard to motivate myself but at the same time I get immediate gratification because I can talk with people more and more everyday.
Thursday, October 06, 2005
Don't worry
So I haven't written for a while because we haven't had any electricity for 3 days!!! How frustrating. For some reason they've given it to us tonight instead which is okay but not ideal.
So this week has been really busy again. My tutor has come every afternoon and then I have a lot of homework to do. The time is well spent though and many people have commented on how my Creole is improving. I still can't understand when people talk really fast but when they slow down I understand most of what they are saying.
I am soooooo pumped about my parents coming next week. They come on Tuesday and are staying for one week. I want to take them to so many places. I want to take them on a taptap, which is basically a pick-up truck with the cab raised up and benches in the back. I find them very exciting but people here don't like to use them. They are very cheap and fairly fast but safey and comfort are questionable. But mostly I just want to talk to them for hours, I hope they're ready to listen to all the stuff I've been saving up to say over the last 2 months.
This weekend I don't have any crazy plans. Just to clean my room so I can impress my parents and maybe have a little thanksgiving turkey by myself. Just kidding, maybe I'll make a special dinner with my parents when they're here and we can call it thanksgiving dinner. My mom was seriously considering packing some leftovers in a cooler and bringing them here!! Sometimes she's crazy like that:)
I think that's all for now. When I'm so busy like this I can't get into too much trouble.
So this week has been really busy again. My tutor has come every afternoon and then I have a lot of homework to do. The time is well spent though and many people have commented on how my Creole is improving. I still can't understand when people talk really fast but when they slow down I understand most of what they are saying.
I am soooooo pumped about my parents coming next week. They come on Tuesday and are staying for one week. I want to take them to so many places. I want to take them on a taptap, which is basically a pick-up truck with the cab raised up and benches in the back. I find them very exciting but people here don't like to use them. They are very cheap and fairly fast but safey and comfort are questionable. But mostly I just want to talk to them for hours, I hope they're ready to listen to all the stuff I've been saving up to say over the last 2 months.
This weekend I don't have any crazy plans. Just to clean my room so I can impress my parents and maybe have a little thanksgiving turkey by myself. Just kidding, maybe I'll make a special dinner with my parents when they're here and we can call it thanksgiving dinner. My mom was seriously considering packing some leftovers in a cooler and bringing them here!! Sometimes she's crazy like that:)
I think that's all for now. When I'm so busy like this I can't get into too much trouble.
Sunday, October 02, 2005
Mini Vacation
I've just returned from "Resort à Jenny":) I had a great weekend. We watched cheesy movies, ate chips and salsa, slept in and lazed around the pool all weekend. Sunday, Ysmaille came over for lunch and a swim, and Jenny and I made a delicious Mongolian Stir Fry for him. I feel very refreshed and ready to tackle another week at Coram Deo. I feel a bit guilty about taking off for the whole weekend because I know all the people at Coram Deo work so hard on the weekend and they aren't able to take off like I am. But at the same time, I have to do what keeps me sane. I remind myself sometimes that I haven't been here all that long and it really takes a lot of energy to adjust to a new culture and even though I feel like I'm not "doing" a lot I really am accomplishing a lot. My Creole is improving and I try practising a lot which is exhausting but the only way I will learn.
The other great thing about hanging out with Jenny is that we have some great talks. We have a lot of the same views about life but we also discuss a lot of questions that don't have easy answers. We both struggle with how to live as rich N. Americans in a country with so much poverty. When and where and how should we give to Haitians? How do we really show God's love? When is it okay to hide away and be "American/Canadian"? We discuss how Haitian culture is different than N. American culture and how we can try to blend the two when we're here. How to be cultural sensitive and yet keep our identity. We had some great talks and of course we didn't come up with any profound answers but it's great to talk to someone who comes from the same world as me. I love talking to Haitians but they don't totally "get" me because they don't know or understand "my world".
While at Jenny's house I found a book of Haitians prayers and would like to share one with you. It is simple but so profound.
"Senyè, Ala nou konton se pa nou k'ap kenbe you, men se ou k'ap kenbe nou."
"Lord, how glad we are that we don't hold you, but that you hold us."
The other great thing about hanging out with Jenny is that we have some great talks. We have a lot of the same views about life but we also discuss a lot of questions that don't have easy answers. We both struggle with how to live as rich N. Americans in a country with so much poverty. When and where and how should we give to Haitians? How do we really show God's love? When is it okay to hide away and be "American/Canadian"? We discuss how Haitian culture is different than N. American culture and how we can try to blend the two when we're here. How to be cultural sensitive and yet keep our identity. We had some great talks and of course we didn't come up with any profound answers but it's great to talk to someone who comes from the same world as me. I love talking to Haitians but they don't totally "get" me because they don't know or understand "my world".
While at Jenny's house I found a book of Haitians prayers and would like to share one with you. It is simple but so profound.
"Senyè, Ala nou konton se pa nou k'ap kenbe you, men se ou k'ap kenbe nou."
"Lord, how glad we are that we don't hold you, but that you hold us."
Wednesday, September 28, 2005
Very Busy
I realize that I've been bad about updating my blog lately and I apologize to all my faithful readers. I've been busy since my tutor starting coming. (although he's missed 2 days already w/o calling:) I feel that I'm learning Creole and he's a good teacher but I wish he was a bit more predictable.
Sunday I went to the mountains with Ysmaille. It was so nice to get out of the city. Ysmaille didn't think I could do the hike up the mountain, he said I would be crying by the end and ask him to carry me. I was so determined that I would make it to the end and I'd be faster than him. I started out great and walked much faster than him, but by the end I was exhausted. I didn't cry but I had to stop and rest a few times. It wasn't that we walked so far it was that it was soooo steep. When we got to his sister's house we had breakfast and got ready for Church. At church I had to stand up and talk about myself. I spoke in Creole!! After Church we walked around and visited with Ysmaille family. They always love to touch my hair and ask me lots of questions. Ysmaille's siter made us a fabulous lunch of french fries, fried plaintain, rice and vegetables and freshly squeezed juice. I really like his sister's family. They are so friendly that I feel like I'm visiting my family. It was so beautitul in the mountains. There were flowers everywhere and it was so peaceful. No cars honking, no people yelling, it was great.
Other than that, life is going well. I'm very busy with the school. I'm not sure what I do all day but I manage to stay very busy getting things for the teachers and doing organizational stuff. After school finishes my tutor comes until 4 o'clock, then I do my homework, play with the kids for a bit and then I'm pretty much ready for bed. I started teaching English in the evenings. I have two different classes because people are at different levels. It makes my day seem really busy but I know they really appreciate it. This weekend I'm going to Jenny's house again. I'm looking forward to a quiet peaceful weekend with a bit of swimming thrown in there. Should be good.
Sunday I went to the mountains with Ysmaille. It was so nice to get out of the city. Ysmaille didn't think I could do the hike up the mountain, he said I would be crying by the end and ask him to carry me. I was so determined that I would make it to the end and I'd be faster than him. I started out great and walked much faster than him, but by the end I was exhausted. I didn't cry but I had to stop and rest a few times. It wasn't that we walked so far it was that it was soooo steep. When we got to his sister's house we had breakfast and got ready for Church. At church I had to stand up and talk about myself. I spoke in Creole!! After Church we walked around and visited with Ysmaille family. They always love to touch my hair and ask me lots of questions. Ysmaille's siter made us a fabulous lunch of french fries, fried plaintain, rice and vegetables and freshly squeezed juice. I really like his sister's family. They are so friendly that I feel like I'm visiting my family. It was so beautitul in the mountains. There were flowers everywhere and it was so peaceful. No cars honking, no people yelling, it was great.
Other than that, life is going well. I'm very busy with the school. I'm not sure what I do all day but I manage to stay very busy getting things for the teachers and doing organizational stuff. After school finishes my tutor comes until 4 o'clock, then I do my homework, play with the kids for a bit and then I'm pretty much ready for bed. I started teaching English in the evenings. I have two different classes because people are at different levels. It makes my day seem really busy but I know they really appreciate it. This weekend I'm going to Jenny's house again. I'm looking forward to a quiet peaceful weekend with a bit of swimming thrown in there. Should be good.
Friday, September 23, 2005
Doctors and tutors
Here the update you 've all been waiting for. On Monday night, I got really sick again and spent most of the night in the bathroom. At one point I was so tired that when I went in the bathroom and saw a mouse I didn't even scream or anything I just waited for it to see me and scurry away under the door. Tuesday morning I felt better. Everyone was so concerned that I finally agreed to go to see a doctor. Karen knows an American Doctor who is in Haiti right now and staying at the hotel near our house. She said I should go and see him. We went and waited for 2 1/2 hours for him to come. I felt bad because I knew he had already worked all day and was probably exhausted and didn't feel like helping one more person. However, he was really nice and told me not to worry just yet and wait and see what happens. Today is Friday and I've felt fine since then.
I'm in good spirits these days and much more positive about surviving in Haiti. I think feeling healthy is a huge help.
I finally got ahold of my tutor on Wednesday and he showed up on Thursday!!! I had my first lesson on Thursday after school and he said he was very impressed with my Creole! I felt pretty good after that. The funny thing is that he asked if he could be paid right away. He dissappears for 2 weeks with no phone call or anything and he thinks we'll pay him up front!!! How do I know he'll show up the next day? Overall, he's a nice guy though and knows a lot about Creole. Many Haitians can't explain any of the grammar rules to me. I guess most English speakers are the same. We're just so used to English we just know what to say without giving much thought to why we say what we do.
This weekend I am going hiking in the mountains with Ysmaille. We're going to his sister's house for lunch and then going for a hike. I'm looking forward to it. Ysmialle makes it sound so beautiful and apparently it's cool there. Wow, that will be a nice change after all the hot weather we've been having.
I'm in good spirits these days and much more positive about surviving in Haiti. I think feeling healthy is a huge help.
I finally got ahold of my tutor on Wednesday and he showed up on Thursday!!! I had my first lesson on Thursday after school and he said he was very impressed with my Creole! I felt pretty good after that. The funny thing is that he asked if he could be paid right away. He dissappears for 2 weeks with no phone call or anything and he thinks we'll pay him up front!!! How do I know he'll show up the next day? Overall, he's a nice guy though and knows a lot about Creole. Many Haitians can't explain any of the grammar rules to me. I guess most English speakers are the same. We're just so used to English we just know what to say without giving much thought to why we say what we do.
This weekend I am going hiking in the mountains with Ysmaille. We're going to his sister's house for lunch and then going for a hike. I'm looking forward to it. Ysmialle makes it sound so beautiful and apparently it's cool there. Wow, that will be a nice change after all the hot weather we've been having.
Monday, September 19, 2005
Tears and Swimming Pools
I knew it was only a matter of time before I received a horrible bout of homesickness. I was right. On Saturday morning I woke up and broke into tears before even getting out of bed. I wanted to go home soooooooo badly. I started to invent reasons why I MUST go home now. Maybe I could get some deadly desease or maybe someone in my family really needs me right now, maybe.... the ideas kept getting more and more crazy. I decided I better call my mother dearest before I went crazy. My mom and dad were great. I called them EARLY Saturday morning and they were both dropped everything to listen to me ramble on between sobs. Needless to say, they gave me some great suggestions and cheered me up sufficiently.
Later that day I went to check out a hotel that my parents might stay at when they come and it was really nice, I'm so excited about them coming!!!! I plan to spend lots of time a the hotel with them and take advantage of the great swimming pool. Speaking of swimming pools, I took the kids swimming on Sunday and they had a GREAT time. They had never been in a pool before so I was a bit nervous but I brought lots of adults to watch them. (although the adults were sometimes sillier than the kids:) Manu can almost swim, Manice was brave but never took off her water wings. Jacob and Sammy were quite terrified at times but they had fun on the stairs. Overall it was a great day.
My tutor is still a no-show. He came the first day and dropped off two books and then I haven't seen him since. It's a bit of a mystery. Maybe he'll come today. I've been practising my Creole a lot lately and it's SLOWLY improving. Sometimes I say really funny things and everyone laughs but I'm not as sensitive as when I first got here. I still have a hard time understanding people but it's coming. I'm trying to put more energy into learning the language these days, it's very crucial for me that I can communicate with the teachers.
To all my daily blogger watchers sorry I haven't written every day. I'll try to keep you updated on my oh-so-exciting life but somedays I just don't find the time. Later.
Later that day I went to check out a hotel that my parents might stay at when they come and it was really nice, I'm so excited about them coming!!!! I plan to spend lots of time a the hotel with them and take advantage of the great swimming pool. Speaking of swimming pools, I took the kids swimming on Sunday and they had a GREAT time. They had never been in a pool before so I was a bit nervous but I brought lots of adults to watch them. (although the adults were sometimes sillier than the kids:) Manu can almost swim, Manice was brave but never took off her water wings. Jacob and Sammy were quite terrified at times but they had fun on the stairs. Overall it was a great day.
My tutor is still a no-show. He came the first day and dropped off two books and then I haven't seen him since. It's a bit of a mystery. Maybe he'll come today. I've been practising my Creole a lot lately and it's SLOWLY improving. Sometimes I say really funny things and everyone laughs but I'm not as sensitive as when I first got here. I still have a hard time understanding people but it's coming. I'm trying to put more energy into learning the language these days, it's very crucial for me that I can communicate with the teachers.
To all my daily blogger watchers sorry I haven't written every day. I'll try to keep you updated on my oh-so-exciting life but somedays I just don't find the time. Later.
Wednesday, September 14, 2005
Road to Recovery
For all those worry warts out there who have written me and told me to go to the hospital/doctor NOW!!!! I am feeling much better. I'm still not sure what I had but I'm on the road to recovery. I worked all morning and felt fine. I take it easy and take a break if I feel I need it.
I'm busy getting things organized around here. My favourite thing to do.
On Friday I've been invited to a wedding. My friend's aunt is getting married and asked me to go with him. We'll have to see, I can only go if I'm home before dark which seems unlikely. Although it would be a good cultural experience for sure.
On Sunday I'm taking the kids swimming at Jenny's pool. They are SO EXCITED and ask me everyday if today is the day we are going. It will be fun to see them having so much fun.
Other than that, not too much is happening. Some old same old.
I'm busy getting things organized around here. My favourite thing to do.
On Friday I've been invited to a wedding. My friend's aunt is getting married and asked me to go with him. We'll have to see, I can only go if I'm home before dark which seems unlikely. Although it would be a good cultural experience for sure.
On Sunday I'm taking the kids swimming at Jenny's pool. They are SO EXCITED and ask me everyday if today is the day we are going. It will be fun to see them having so much fun.
Other than that, not too much is happening. Some old same old.
Monday, September 12, 2005
Still sick...
I am so tired of laying in bed and feeling sorry for myself:) I'm still sick and I have no energy. Every night I go to sleep thinking that tomorrow I'll feel fine, but this morning I woke up again and still feel far from fine. I'm never sick for this long. I started taking medicine yesterday but if I still feel sick tomorrow I will go to a doctor. I don't want to be sick for longer than necessary. Right now I feel so useless and I'm REALLY bored. I've read a lot and slept a lot and I'm really running out of things to do. I try to get up and do a few things but after about 20-30 minutes I have to lay back down and rest for a bit. Well, hopefully it's nothing serious and I get better soon.
Saturday, September 10, 2005
Under the Weather
The first week of school is finished and it was quite the interesting week. Mostly I just observed and helped with crowd control. I have lots of ideas in my head but I think I'll wait and introduce them slowly. The teachers are open to change for the most part (if it doesn't involve too much work) but mostly they just want more teaching supplies (just like every teacher). The worst part of this week was that I got pretty sick on Wednesday night and I still feel quite sick now. I had fever, body ache, nausea the whole bit. I'm not really sure what I have but I sure hope it's nothing serious. Today I just feel really tired and can't stand up for long. I'm sure in a few days I'll be all better.
So on Friday night I went to a women's meeting from the church. It was at my friend Jenny's house and since it went until after dark (my curfew) Jenny offered to let me sleep over. It was great to get together with women who are foreigners. Although I love my Haitians brothers it's just not the same. So we had a small devotional, ate some North American food and had a swim. They are planning on meeting every other week. I will try to go as often as possible but it's difficult because I'm the only one who lives in my neighbourhood, everyone else lives pretty close to eachother. This morning we went shopping at an art shop, they had some pretty cool stuff. Then we went back to Jenny's house for a swim and just vegged. It was really like a mini holiday and I felt like I really needed it. Here house is huge and it honestly feels a bit like a resort.
Tomorrow I'm supposed to go hiking in the mountains but I don't think I'll be up to it so maybe I'll just spend some time at home and take it easy so I'm ready to work hard on Monday.
So on Friday night I went to a women's meeting from the church. It was at my friend Jenny's house and since it went until after dark (my curfew) Jenny offered to let me sleep over. It was great to get together with women who are foreigners. Although I love my Haitians brothers it's just not the same. So we had a small devotional, ate some North American food and had a swim. They are planning on meeting every other week. I will try to go as often as possible but it's difficult because I'm the only one who lives in my neighbourhood, everyone else lives pretty close to eachother. This morning we went shopping at an art shop, they had some pretty cool stuff. Then we went back to Jenny's house for a swim and just vegged. It was really like a mini holiday and I felt like I really needed it. Here house is huge and it honestly feels a bit like a resort.
Tomorrow I'm supposed to go hiking in the mountains but I don't think I'll be up to it so maybe I'll just spend some time at home and take it easy so I'm ready to work hard on Monday.
Monday, September 05, 2005
First Day of School
Unbelievable but it's true. Today was the first day of school for Coram Deo. There were many surprises for me and I really don't feel like a "director" of a school and today I definately didn't look the part with my youthful braids. The teachers really dress up here so I felt I should wear a nice skirt. Thank goodness I brought a few with me.
So of the 80 students registered only 27 showed up today and Karen said this is better than last year! I think we may have to offer a free Mardarin lunch for all the students who never miss a day or come late:) Seriously, we are going to think of a reward for all those students because attendance is a major issue here. Overall the day went quite well. There seems to be very little structure and I'm torn between introducing structure right away or sitting back and observing for a while. I'm leaning towards sitting back and just observing and slowly introducing some structure. I know it's harder to establish routines later on the in the school year but at the same time I don't want to arrive from another culture and another country with all the "answers" and try to change everything. Anything that works well I want to keep.
I spent the morning sharpening pencils for the students (because no one brought one) and feeling very unlike the dignified director that I am:) The rest of the day I made ID cards for the students for when their parents come and pick them up at the end of the day.
Overall it was a good day. I feel sort of lost still but I'm sure I'll get into the groove soon.
So of the 80 students registered only 27 showed up today and Karen said this is better than last year! I think we may have to offer a free Mardarin lunch for all the students who never miss a day or come late:) Seriously, we are going to think of a reward for all those students because attendance is a major issue here. Overall the day went quite well. There seems to be very little structure and I'm torn between introducing structure right away or sitting back and observing for a while. I'm leaning towards sitting back and just observing and slowly introducing some structure. I know it's harder to establish routines later on the in the school year but at the same time I don't want to arrive from another culture and another country with all the "answers" and try to change everything. Anything that works well I want to keep.
I spent the morning sharpening pencils for the students (because no one brought one) and feeling very unlike the dignified director that I am:) The rest of the day I made ID cards for the students for when their parents come and pick them up at the end of the day.
Overall it was a good day. I feel sort of lost still but I'm sure I'll get into the groove soon.
Sunday, September 04, 2005
Sunday
I just had a great Sunday morning. I went to the English speaking church finally. It was so great to go to church and understand what they were saying. I really enjoyed the service and the message and of course I could sing and actually know what I was singing. I think Ysmaille liked it, he'd said he'd go with me again. I also saw Jenny (the girl I went for lunch with) and she introduced me to a few teachers at the missionary school. On Friday there is going to be a women's get together at Jenny's house and I'm going to try and go. Jenny offered to let me sleep over because it doesn't finish until after dark. Most of the people live really close to eachother so it's fine for them but I have further to travel. I'm really looking forward to it.
The guys are working on the books right now but I told them that I'm not helping. I have worked non-stop on the books for 1 1/2 weeks and I've started dreaming about them. I need a break!!!
Later, I'm going to Ysmaille's house for lunch. Every Sunday we visit some of his relatives and I just smile and say "Bonswa" over and over again while they talk all around me. Sometimes Ysmialle translates especially if they ask me a question. I really need to learn Creole soon so I can really experience the culture.
So, I've finally arranged for a tutor. Another lady who has been in Haiti for almost 3 years and works near us hasn't picked up much Creole and would also like to have a tutor. We're going to hire the same tutor and have classes together. It's a two week intensive course and I'm hopefully going to do it in the afternoon since school is in the morning until 1:00. I know it will be a lot of work with school just starting but I have to learn the language soon.
Well, other than that not too much happening. I got my hair braided which took forever but I like it. I posted some more pictures on my photo album if you want to check them out.
Alright, that's pretty much all for now.
The guys are working on the books right now but I told them that I'm not helping. I have worked non-stop on the books for 1 1/2 weeks and I've started dreaming about them. I need a break!!!
Later, I'm going to Ysmaille's house for lunch. Every Sunday we visit some of his relatives and I just smile and say "Bonswa" over and over again while they talk all around me. Sometimes Ysmialle translates especially if they ask me a question. I really need to learn Creole soon so I can really experience the culture.
So, I've finally arranged for a tutor. Another lady who has been in Haiti for almost 3 years and works near us hasn't picked up much Creole and would also like to have a tutor. We're going to hire the same tutor and have classes together. It's a two week intensive course and I'm hopefully going to do it in the afternoon since school is in the morning until 1:00. I know it will be a lot of work with school just starting but I have to learn the language soon.
Well, other than that not too much happening. I got my hair braided which took forever but I like it. I posted some more pictures on my photo album if you want to check them out.
Alright, that's pretty much all for now.
Thursday, September 01, 2005
Standard and Sweatshops
I am sooooo proud of myself. Yesterday Ysmaille taught me how to drive standard and I don't want to brag but I was pretty good. When I tried learning in Canada I was always horrible and felt like crying the whole time. Yesterday I learned very quicly and drove all over the place. If we got stuck in traffic Ysmaille took over (he was afraid I was going to roll back into someone I think). I'll need to practise more but I think I did pretty good.
So the Coram Deo sweatshop is busy everyday. We sit and sweat in the living room covering the textbooks in plastic. We work all day everyday but the books seem to be multiplying. They won't be finished before school starts but such is life. We can only work so fast and so long.
I forgot to write about an event that happened on Sunday. It was actually quite disturbing. When we left church there was a large crowd gathering. Karen walked near to check out what was happening. Apparently someone tried to steal someone's car while they were in church. We kept walking and got into a tap-tap. The police truck with him inside drove behind us on our way home and we could see one of the police officers beating the thief with his gun. He just kept hitting him over and over again. I asked Ysmaille if he thinks they killed him and he said, "probably". I was quite upset about it but everyone here just said that he deserved it. They really don't have much respect for thieves.
Well, enough about that. Electricity has been unpredictable these days, so if I haven't e-mailed you back it's either because I'm so busy or because the electricity went out again. I apologize.
I better get back to the sweat shop. My workers will be wondering where I am:)
So the Coram Deo sweatshop is busy everyday. We sit and sweat in the living room covering the textbooks in plastic. We work all day everyday but the books seem to be multiplying. They won't be finished before school starts but such is life. We can only work so fast and so long.
I forgot to write about an event that happened on Sunday. It was actually quite disturbing. When we left church there was a large crowd gathering. Karen walked near to check out what was happening. Apparently someone tried to steal someone's car while they were in church. We kept walking and got into a tap-tap. The police truck with him inside drove behind us on our way home and we could see one of the police officers beating the thief with his gun. He just kept hitting him over and over again. I asked Ysmaille if he thinks they killed him and he said, "probably". I was quite upset about it but everyone here just said that he deserved it. They really don't have much respect for thieves.
Well, enough about that. Electricity has been unpredictable these days, so if I haven't e-mailed you back it's either because I'm so busy or because the electricity went out again. I apologize.
I better get back to the sweat shop. My workers will be wondering where I am:)
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